Thinking about getting married at Home Affairs? You're in good company — civil ceremonies are one of the most popular ways South African couples tie the knot. Simple, affordable, and fully legally recognised, they're the perfect choice for couples who want the commitment without the commotion.
What is a Courthouse Wedding, Exactly?
Although often called a courthouse wedding, civil ceremonies in South Africa actually take place at the offices of the Department of Home Affairs. These weddings have no religious component and are conducted by a marriage officer duly authorised by the Department. They're legally binding, fully recognised, and increasingly popular across the country.
Why Should I Consider a Courthouse Wedding?
Not into the whole princess-bride-in-a-huge-meringue thing? Or perhaps you've previously had a big wedding and don't wish to go there again. A civil ceremony is perfect for:
- Couples who want to keep costs down without compromising on meaning
- Same-sex couples
- Second-time-around couples
- Couples from different religious backgrounds, or those with no religious affiliation
- Couples who want to make the commitment without waiting months to plan a full-scale wedding
How Do I Organise a Courthouse Wedding?
It's not quite like in the movies. Due to the tremendous popularity of civil ceremonies in South Africa, Home Affairs takes bookings well in advance — in many areas, you'll need to plan at least four months ahead. Simply visit your local Home Affairs offices (or those in the jurisdiction where you wish to marry) and ask about available dates. You'll be asked under which Act you wish the union to be solemnised:
- Marriage under the Civil Union Act No. 17 of 2006 — for heterosexual and same-sex couples
- Marriage under the Marriage Act No. 25 of 1961 — for heterosexual couples only
You'll also need two witnesses — although Home Affairs staff can assist if you need them on the day.
Note:
- The ceremony at Home Affairs is free of charge
- All South African marriages are by default in community of property. If you wish to marry out of community of property, have an attorney draft an ante-nuptial agreement (ANC) before the ceremony and bring it along on the day
- The venue is small — you can bring around six to eight guests at most
What Should I Wear to a Courthouse Wedding?
Wear whatever feels right for the occasion! Smart-casual is most appropriate, especially if you're heading to a reception afterwards — a short dress or trouser suit for the bride, and trousers with a blazer for the groom. A small bouquet or posy is a lovely touch if you'd like one.
What Happens on the Big Day?
Pack the following documents in an envelope in advance — you'll hand these over when you arrive:
- Your receipt from Home Affairs confirming your booking
- Two ID photographs each (you and your partner)
- Green barcoded ID Documents for you, your partner, and both witnesses
- If one partner is a foreign national: a passport and a letter of confirmation of marital status from their country of origin
- Divorce order (if previously divorced) or death certificate (if previously widowed)
Arrive in good time and check in — you won't have to queue with the general public, but will be directed to a dedicated area where you can wait for your ceremony. Marriage appointments are typically scheduled at half-hour intervals, though you may wait a little longer if officials are handling an emergency marriage (which takes priority when one partner is ill). The atmosphere is usually jovial and collegial — you'll likely meet other waiting couples and share the excitement of the occasion.
Tell Me About the Ceremony Itself
Your entrance is relaxed — you and your guests simply walk into the Marriage Room together, chatting along the way. There are no religious references or readings. The marriage officer will move efficiently through the official exchange of vows, invite you to say a few personal words if you wish, oversee the exchange of rings, and have you and your witnesses sign the register. And just like that — you're wed!
What About the Paperwork?
After the ceremony, you'll receive a handwritten abridged marriage certificate, and your thumbprints will be taken for the National Population Register. It's a good idea to also apply for an unabridged marriage certificate — especially useful if you're planning to travel internationally together or need the document for immigration or other official purposes. Contact your local Home Affairs office for current fees and processing times, as these can change.
What About a Wedding Reception?
The ceremony over, celebrate your nuptials however you choose — a luncheon, garden party, cocktail party, or wedding dinner, small or large, frugal or fancy, with speeches, cake, and dancing — or without. The ceremony sets the legal seal; the celebration is entirely yours to design.